Don’t cry because it’s over. Smile because it happened.
Sometimes life can seem very painful. The people who seem to get the most out of life, are those who are willing to smile through the pain, and who no matter what, choose to see the silver lining in each situation. Many of us have always been a certain way for long periods in our lives, and rarely ever force ourselves to see the good in each situation. This is a result of the way we are pretty much trained as a people to think.
We are in a sense, wired by default to only give our focus on whatever is directly in front of us or behind us. In order to rewire our brains to rid ourselves from this destructive way of thinking we have to be willing to focus on the gains from each situation instead of focusing on what we think we may have lost. When we do this over and over again, we will gain new confidence to achieve greater things than we probably ever imagined.